Friday, 22 May 2015

Funky Kid Friday - Bows & Candy SS15

One of the fab brands we are working with on Instagram, Bowties & Candyfloss, are launching their SS15 collection on Monday 25th May.  There have been quite a few sneak peaks and us lucky reps have been sent a selection of the collection to wear.

My boys have both been sent items from the collection and we are so happy with it all!  It's a really fun unisex collection with a fruity feel to it so it's spot on for summer.  Fruit, in particular, pineapples and melons are a really big trend this summer so Alex who runs Bows & Candy is bang on trend.  Well done Mrs!

Bows & Candy SS15 Collection Fruit Salad

The quality of the clothes is fantastic.  It's lovely knowing that your child is wearing a fairly unique item, handmade by a WAHM in the UK.  The material is soft, comfy and washes well.  No bobbling!  They are all practical as well.  Alex made Ethan an exclusive romper as he's one of her older reps.  The romper has poppers at the bottom just like it would for a toddler or baby.. but this is really handy!  Ethan actually loves wearing "rompers" but mostly for older kids they are all in ones that you have to pull over your head or step into.  Not very practical when it comes to using the loo!  With this one Ethan can just undo the poppers and go to the loo!  Nice and easy.

Bows and Candy, Watermelon, SS15



I totally recommend you checking Bows & Candy out.  It's good to support smaller UK businesses I think!  Alex gives wonderful customer service as well and will sort out any issues in a flash.

Got a kids fashion post?  Link up below!  Thank you to all who join in - please don't forget to link back to my blog in your post and/or display my Funky Kid Friday badge (see sidebar).  If you tweet me your link I can RT it for you and I do my best to visit your post, comment and tweet your link again!

Happy Friday!
X

Thursday, 21 May 2015

Farm Fest 2015 - Festival prep

When I was a teenager, one thing I always wanted to do was to go to Glastobury festival.  Every year it got close to Glasto time I would start to feel a bit sad.  A sense of loss would pervade me.  Yet again I hadn't made it.  Of course, in my early teens that was unlikely anyway.. but I always thought I would make it there in my late teens or twenties.

It didn't happen.  I finished at school, I didn't go to Uni, my friends moved to different parts of the country.  Glasto was pricey, I wasn't earning much money.. it just didn't happen.  Pete wasn't overly bothered about going to a festival.

Fast forward to 2009, I was heavily pregnant with Ethan and Pete got the chance to work at Glastonbury as part of the police web/media team.  He didn't stay overnight (I was due any day) but drove there every day.  Despite the fact he was working he did get to experience Glasto and soak up the festival vibes.  He ended up working there again in 2011.  Have I made it there yet?  No.

My desires and wants have changed in life.  I am now in my *cough* early thirties and I have two children.  These days I'm just not to fussed about the idea of going to Glasto.  Pete tells me it's huge.  I don't want to go to some massive over priced festival.  I like the idea of going somewhere small.  For me, it'd be more about live music, a chilled out feel and the chance to be with my family.

I started looking into smaller UK festivals. There are quite a few out there that pride themselves on staying small, intimate and family friendly.  That's just what we want!  One that jumped out at me was Farm Fest.  First of all, it's not far from us.  Secondly, we know lots of people who have gone and loved it.  Thirdly, it is very family focused.

The Farm Fest team have been very kind and offered to let us attend their festival so we can help spread the word.   I will  be going with Pete and the boys and will be posting pics on Instagram and tweeting whilst we are there.  After the even I'll be posting a detailed review on here with lots of pics.  In the meantime though, it's all about the prep!



We are essentially, as a family, Festival Virgins.  Can you help us?  What do we really need?  What can we leave behind?

Our first thought was a tent so we bid on one on eBay and went to pick it up last week.  That's that sorted.  Ethan already has a "ready bed" so he's sorted but we need to get one for Felix and one for ourselves.  Do you think we should get a ready bed?  Or just separate sleeping bags and a bed roll?

I'm thinking it will be advisable to take a lot of loo roll, antibac lotion, wet wipes, sun cream, hats, sunnies, wellies, rain gear.  We have bought a special charger.  You charge it up from mains power and then you can use it to recharge your phone, camera etc.  So we shouldn't have any issues using our phones whilst away.

Shall we take gin in a plastic bottle?

Only old clothes I'm thinking...  Lots of snacks for the kids!

I could really do with your advice so get commenting below or tweet me!!  And if you fancy coming yourself, go grab a ticket!

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

Davina's 7 Minute Fit Review

Davina's fitness DVDs are things of legend, aren't they!  Everyone knows Davina, she's one of the most friendly TV hosts out there.  Her fitness DVDs seem to be hit after hit and I've always wondered why.

I'll be honest with you.  I've been put off trying one of her DVDs because she looks sooooo amazing I thought it'd wind me up no end seeing her prancing around on my TV looking all amazing, not sweating and finding it all easy..

So, when I was was offered the chance to try out her most recent fitness DVD recently, 7 Minute Fit, I paused.. but then I thought, what the heck, why not?

Well, I am so glad I did.  I was very pleasantly surprised but this DVD.  First of all, Davina remains her friendly self.  She is so likeable, so watchable.  Yes, she looks amazing, but she really does sweat and works hard in it!

davina 7 minute fit review


The work outs themselves are fab.  What I love about this DVD is that it's really simple to do, and easy to fit around your life.  There is a warm up which lasts just a few minutes (and it is effective) and a cool down and then several different work outs which last 7 minutes each.  So, you can do a warm up and one work out, or the warm up and every work out.  It's up to you.  Great to tailor around life.  Some days you are less tired or have more time.  Some days you are tired out but want a quick burst of fitness.

The exercises are varied.  You can work on an overall fat burner, you can concentrate on your tummy or legs.  You can even test your fitness levels.  A good way to see how you've improved.

When I'm doing the DVD I start with the warm up.  I then pick two or three of the 7 min work outs, I try to get a variety, so I might pick boxersize to get the whole body working, and then the intense tummy work out.  I always finish with the cool down because it's relaxing if nothing else!

There is a very useful (and recommended) section on how to do various different exercises and stretches which is handy if you are new to exercise or aren't familiar with certain ones.

Overall, this is a really great home work out.   The variety, speed of exercise and the friendliness of Davina and her trainer make it enjoyable.  And I do mean that!

Buy my boy's clothes!

If you read my blog the chances are that you've twigged that my boys have a lot of clothes.  When Ethan grows out of clothes I generally save them for Felix to grow into (always nice to see something worn again!) but when Felix grows out of clothes I have to make a hard decision.  Do I hold onto them as a keepsake or, as I like to tell myself, future grandchildren (yes, I do fold items up, sniff them, kiss them and say "see you again on the Grandkids - I hope!").  I try to be hard and either pass on, giveaway or sell on most of his clothes though.

Like many people I use eBay to sell on a lot of old clothing but there are some more special, nicer or rarer items that I try selling in other ways.  I'm currently uploading quite a bit on a second Instagram account I have, @booandbo which I created just as a platform for selling on old clothes.  It hasn't been wildly successful though so I thought I'd mention it on here.



You can check it out here or click on the tab above (under my image header there's a tab called "Buy Our Clothes On Instagram").  Prices are quite low and include UK postage.  All you do is comment with your paypal address (or you can comment with 'me please' and DM me your paypal address).  Once I have your paypal address I'll invoice you. Easy!

Go have a look!

Friday, 15 May 2015

Funky Kid Friday Top Picks

I thought today I'd feature some of my top picks from two of my sponsors, The Kid Who and This Modern Life.  Both are really fantastic shops and it's hard not to write a really short blog post which says:

"Head to these sites and BUY EVERYTHING!"

because they just have so much.  SO MUCH!!!

From The Kid Who who stock clothing as well as many other lust worthy items I've chosen these beauties:

The Kid Who, Aarre Kid, Soft Gallery, Kids Fashion



This Modern Life are really focused on interiors. I really love:

This Modern Life, Ferm Living, Bedding, Rock and Pebble, Fine Little Day



As for us, this week has been a bit peculiar.  Pete has been in London all week so I've been solo parenting.  The boys have, typically, had colds, but all things considered I've done really well!  I've managed to eat my evening meal by 7:30 every evening, got both boys into bed without much fuss and been out of the house (leaving it tidy and organised) for the school run 5 minutes earlier that we would normally be with Pete at home to help.  I'm not quite sure how that works!!

We've been joining in with #colourbythewall on Insta again so here's a couple of pics of the boys:

Colour By The Wall, Bows and Candy

Watermelon vest - Bowties & Candyfloss
Shorts - John Lewis

Colour By The Wall, Rock Your Baby, Plastisock

Top - Plastisock
Leggings - Rock Your Baby

It was lovely to see so many of you linked up last week - thank you!  Want to link up today?  Do so below!

This post will be linked with Mummy's Got Style and Style Me Sunday

Thursday, 14 May 2015

Funky Lighting!

We're a bit obessed with lights in our house.  One of Ethan's first words was "light".  He loves lights.  Almost everything he draws includes a detailed amount of street lighting.  If he draws a house, every room has lights in it.  He has always paid attention to detail.  He loves a good light!

There's so much cool lighting around just now.  I just found these beauties for sale with The Kid Who:

Pineapple Light, Funky Light, The Kid Who

I mean, who doesn't want a bit light up pineapple in their house?  Come on.  Everyone wants one! I do then....

And look! Awwwww! A baby bunny light! Too cute:

Bunny Night Light, Kids Lighting, The Kid Who

These are adorable too!

House light, night light, The Kid Who

We can't be the only ones who love lights?  How about your family?

What are we teaching our children?

Children are like little sponges.  From the moment they are born (and probably before in the womb too!) they are listening to us, absorbing our signs, our body language, our cues.  They take in far more than we realise I think and it is from us (and the world around us) that they learn who they are and who everyone else is.

The debate over clothes and toys for children has been on fire lately.  I've always been an advocate of the gender neutral.  I would have bought the same toys and many of the same clothes had my children been girls instead of boys. I bought toys that I knew they would enjoy.  A variety.  Cars and buggies, a play kitchen and bikes, dolls and trains.  Children like to emulate the world around them, to explore.  Their Daddy pushes them in a buggy, why shouldn't they push a doll in a buggy.  Or a car in the buggy.  Whatever.  Their toys, their play!  I've always dressed my boys in all colours.  I often shop for them in the "girls" section of stores as well as the "boys" section.  Why not?

I like to think that by letting my boys wear all styles of clothing (they have dresses, skirts and wigs in their dressing up bag which they can and have worn out of the house if they wish) and play with all toys.  I try my best to teach them that colours have no gender.  That hair length has nothing to do with the sex of a person.  That girls and boys are equally strong.  That they can be a ballet dancer and girls can be a brain surgeon.  The trouble is that I feel I'm fighting a loosing battle at times.

The amount of times I've seen online or heard from a Mum "Oh, I've to buy a new pram/paint the nursery/buy new clothes for the new baby because I had a girl last time and this time I'm having a boy".  Why?  Yes, society does have a bee in it's bonnet about what's "for girls" and what's "for boys" but if we don't try to see past that and fight against it, that won't change!! How wasteful in a world already creating more waste than our world can cope with to buy almost everything new in a prescribed colour just because you're expecting a different sex of child.

When Ethan started at preschool I started to notice a few changes in him.  He had a pair of pink converese at the time and would wear them there.  One day he came home and told me he'd been asked by one of the children why he was "wearing girl's shoes?".  Luckily it didn't put him off wearing them but it made me sad to think he was being exposed to that kind of thinking.  And this was from a 3 year old.. and this is the point I'm trying to make.  This 3 year old has received the message from somewhere that only girls wear pink.  Where from?  I could be wrong, but it's most likely a message received from family members, parents, older siblings, grandparents.

It's this I want us to think about.  You can have your own opinions.  Please do!! You can have your own likes and dislikes.  But please, please think about how you speak to your children.  The things you say can have a huge effect.  Even if you're not addressing them directly.  Imagine you bump into a friend outside the school gates.  You both have your youngest children with you.  You and your friend start chatting and one of you says to the other "Oh, I've got to go all the way into the city later, I went to buy some new wellies for Sarah in town but they only had blue and green pairs.  I need to get her a pair in a girls colour so it's a drive into the city for us today!".  Now, perhaps Sarah likes pink or purple (which according to today's world are "girls colours") and that's fine, but what isn't fine is when colours are labeled as "girls" or "boys".  It's such a small thing.  But at the same time it isn't.  Whilst parents chat and say these things, children listen.  And learn.

Yesterday I was at a playground with Felix.  He'd just come down the slide and was pleased as punch by how fast he'd come down and came to tell me.  "Good boy! I said "Well done!"  There was another child in the playground at the same time and the child suddenly piped up "You mean girl! Good girl".  "No I don't" I said "He's a boy!".  "Not a boy" said the child "Long hair means a girl so you mean good girl".  "Nope" I said "Boys and girls can both have long hair! Long hair doesn't mean a girl!".  The child ran off and carried on playing.. but it really struck me.  This child can't have been more than 3.  Now, I know we all as humans love to define everyone, to "understand" the world around us and that's fine, but somewhere along the line this child has learnt that only girls have long hair.  Something that might have blown his mind if I'd pointed it out is that I have a grade 3 cut on mine!! Haha..

All I can really say is that it is so important to teach our children compassion, understanding, equality.  Children are naturally curious and do point things out from time to time (I remember one embarrassing occasion when Ethan very loudly pointed about a person's severe acne).  They don't do these things with the aim to be nasty but somewhere along the line they realise that what they say has power.  A 3 year old pointing out pink shoes or long hair is just making an observation,, but they know that what they've noticed is "wrong" according to what they've learned before and a little further down the line they realise that their words have power and they can use them to hurt and control.  Let's try to make this a world that embraces everyone, whatever their gender, sexual orientation, colour and size.  As I said to Ethan on the way home from school yesterday (when he'd told me someone had said to him "Ethan, why do you have such big horrible brown eyes?") "we are all a little weird, all a little different.  Everyone has things about themselves they aren't completely happy with.  But we are who we are and we must celebrate our differences!".

Friday, 8 May 2015

A Bird Like Himself - Book Review

It's a pleasure and an honor of mine as a blogger to be sent children's books for review purposes.  I can't get enough of reading to my boys and they love a new book.  I especially love finding new (to me) authors and supporting smaller publishers.

I disovered Tiny Owl Books on Instagram of all places.  Tiny Owl are a husband and wife team, Karim Arghandehpour and Delaram Ghanimifard.  They live in London currently but wanted to creating a publishing house that would reflect the culture of their home country, Iran and a variety of cultures from around the world.

We were sent a copy of A Bird Like Himself by Anahita Teymorian an Iranian autor/illustrator.  Anahita's story is all about parental love and growing up.

A Bird Like Himself Tiny Owl Publishing

The basic story is that one day a large egg is left in a forest.  A chick hatches out but there is no mother there to look after him.  Instead, he is found by a mixed group of animals who all try their best to bring the chick up in different ways.  All of the animals love the chick but the one thing they are unable to teach him is how to fly.



I don't want to spoil the story and give it all away but it is an adorable tale.  The illustrations are beautiful, striking and quite different.  The colours are bold but there is also a good use of black and white making them very eye-catching for even young children.  My boys enjoy the story itself.  Anything that reaffirms love for a "child" is a good thing.  I like how the story shows how the chick grows though.  Love and support mean that he is, eventually, able to spread his wings!

A Bird Like Himself Tiny Owl Publishing


All in all, a great little read.  I love the ethos behind Tiny Owl and hope they go from strength to strength!

Funky Kid Friday - Messy Fashion

I like to get a bit crafty when I can, but because time (and resources) are limited, it has to be something that is quick, easy and effective!

I've always thought that paint splatter looks quite cool and I thought it'd be easy to replicate and quite good fun!! I am really into monochrome at the moment (as if you hadn't noticed!!) so I bought a big pack of white socks, a pair of white leggings and a pack of white vests.  About two weeks ago I hung them all on my washing line and then I grabbed a paint brush and some black Dylon fabric paint (which I already had) and I simply went outside, loaded up the paint brush and repeatedly splattered both sides of the clothing!

Hanging the clothes on the washing line was a great idea because it meant I could access both sides of the fabric at the same time (if I'd laid them on the floor I wouldn't have been able to turn them over until the first side was dry).  It also meant they could air dry easily.  What wasn't so sensible was that I didn't think about what I was wearing.  I wore my denim dress and quite quickly I ended up with some paint splatters on it!! At that point I took the dress off, put a black top & leggings on, hung the dress on the line with the other clothes and resumed splatting!!

Paint splatter clothes

All in all it took me about half an hour.  Once the paint had dried I brought them inside and ironed them to set the paint.  That was it!!  I think they look amazing.  Even my own dress, it looks cool!



Ice Lolly Tee - Chapter One
Leggings - me!
Mocs - Belle & The Bear

Whale Cardi - Yumi
Dress - Charity Shop (splattered by me)
Tights - Slugs & Snails


What do you think?

Have you heard of the children's clothing shop Gorgeous Little George?  They have launched their own range of t shirts recently and I'm really loving them.  I bought one for Felix that says "Mummy is a Blogger" and it's getting some real love on Instagram!!

Mummy Is A Blogger Gorgeous Little George


If you've written any kids fashion posts lately, link up below!  Don't forget to check out the giveaway I'm running here for a beautiful Elodie Details hooded towel.  On Insta I'm giving away a fantastic bedding set!

Happy Friday everyone! X

**linking with Mummy's Got Style & Style Me Sunday**

Tuesday, 5 May 2015

Win with Elodie Details

Elodie Details are a brand I first discovered when I had Ethan nearly 6 years ago now.  I first loved them because they made beautiful baby bottles and accessories.  Over the years their range has grown and grown as has their following.  Now they make beautiful home wears and even their own strollers as well as the most stunning stroller/buggy accessories, blankets and clothing.


The lovely folks at ED have offered my readers the chance to win two prizes.  I'm going to be giving one away via my blog and one on Instagram.  Two wonderful prizes!  On Instagram we're giving away a Graphic Grace cot bed bedding set and here on the blog we're giving away a Graphic Grace hooded towel.  They are both heavenly, bang on the monochrome trend and unisex.  Perfect really!



If you'd like to be in with a chance of winning the towel simply use the Rafflecopter below and like both my facebook page and the Elodie Details facebook page.  Don't forget that I will be checking that the entries have been made correctly (i.e. if you click to say that you've liked the Elodie Details facebook page that will be checked up on).  It's only to keep things fair.



If you're on IG, don't forget to check out the giveaway there!  Both giveaways will end on Tuesday the 19th of May and the winners announced shortly after. Good Luck!

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